There has been a change to the date of the surgery, it will now take place on 12th February 2014 at Guy's Hospital in London.
I have previously mentioned the surgery and posted some pretty graphic pictures. I've only given an account from my side and it was brief. I have been getting a lot of questions from people as the date nears about both sides of the surgery. So this post should help clear some of those questions up.
I have to have some more tests done as my previous tests have expired as they only last a year. One other thing that I have to do before the surgery is to meet with an independent assessor from the Human Tissue Authority (HTA). The assessor wants to make sure that I completely understand the implications of the process. They also have to make sure that I am not being either bribed or
coerced into donating. Final approval for the transplantation must come
from the Human Tissue Authority, and this can take a number of weeks.
In the fortnight or so before the surgery, both my brother and I will have some more blood tests done to ensure that nothing has changed and there will be a few pre-op investigations carried out as part of a pre-admission visit to the hospital.
My Operation
The operation to remove a kidney is a major operation that requires a
general anaesthetic. The surgery usually takes about two to three hours.
The surgeon will remove my left kidney using “keyhole” or laparoscopic surgical
techniques. It involves
a number of small incisions (1–3 cm each), through which instruments
are inserted to remove the kidney. A larger incision is then made to
take the kidney out.
Once the kidney is removed it will be taken to my brother, who will be in another operating theatre.
My Brother's Operation
His surgery is a little more complex than mine and usually takes 3-4 hours to complete.
First, the surgeon will make an incision in my brother's lower abdomen
(stomach), through which my kidney is put into place. My brother's diseased kidneys will be left where they are, unless they are causing a
problem, such as an infection.
Then, blood vessels from his lower abdomen are attached to
the blood vessels of my donated kidney. This is to provide the donated
kidney with the blood supply that it needs to function properly.
Lastly, the ureter (the tube that carries urine from the kidney
to the bladder) of the donated kidney is connected to your bladder.
My donated kidney should take over the work previously done by my brothers two kidneys, pretty much immediately.
After the Surgery
After the operation, we will be taken to a recovery room to wake up from the
anaesthetic. We will both have several temporary tubes or lines inserted
during our operations, which will include a tube inserted into the bladder
(catheter) and possibly a drainage tube from the wound. These tubes are usually
removed within a few days. Drugs for pain relief will be given
immediately. Thank God!!
Whilst I am dosing up on the pain killers, my brother will begin treatment with medication designed to prevent his immune system from rejecting his new kidney.
Recovery
We will both be in hospital for about a week, perhaps more for my brother, but once home, I should be able to return to work and continue leading a normal life after about 6 weeks and my brother should be feeling much better within a few months and probably return to work to.
Doesn't sound so scary now, does it??! I am actually quite looking forward to the chance to have a good old rest!!
This blog is about my journey as a kidney donor for my brother. If you've stumbled upon this, I hope you will find it informative and interesting and may even be beneficial to you if you are considering donating a kidney to someone.
Saturday, 30 November 2013
Saturday, 23 November 2013
The Countdown has begun
In a little over 8 weeks now, I'll be donating my left kidney to my brother. The reality is beginning to set in.
I'm having to think about whether to take the time off from work as holiday or to take it as sick leave and where I am going to spend my convalescence time. Things I never really thought about before or had made assumptions about, but now I actually have to decide some stuff. Which, anyone that knows me well will agree, is not easy. I'm not great at making decisions. Would much rather have someone tell me what I should do.
As it was just over a year ago, since I had the first set of work up tests, I have to do the chest x-ray, renal ultrasound and bloods again as they have now expired. Obviously they need to make sure I am still fit and healthy enough to donate. I'm sure it'll all be fine. However, I still need to give up smoking :(. Really need to do that!!
I'm having to think about whether to take the time off from work as holiday or to take it as sick leave and where I am going to spend my convalescence time. Things I never really thought about before or had made assumptions about, but now I actually have to decide some stuff. Which, anyone that knows me well will agree, is not easy. I'm not great at making decisions. Would much rather have someone tell me what I should do.
As it was just over a year ago, since I had the first set of work up tests, I have to do the chest x-ray, renal ultrasound and bloods again as they have now expired. Obviously they need to make sure I am still fit and healthy enough to donate. I'm sure it'll all be fine. However, I still need to give up smoking :(. Really need to do that!!
Saturday, 2 November 2013
The Ties that Bind
Peoples reactions upon discovering that I am donating a kidney to my brother, don't really differ all that much. The majority of people, think it's a wonderful thing to do for a person. There are some that feel my attitude towards what I am doing is a little too blasé, and to some extent I would agree.
Truth be told, I don't think I could go through with it if it wasn't for the love and unwavering support of my family and friends. They keep me grounded and give me the strength to face my fears.
Having a good support system is really important. Having people that will be there for you, not just during the all the tests, or visiting you in the hospital, or even during your recovery, but people that are there for EVERYTHING! The times when you are unsure of your decision, when your scared or just to talk about how you feel about what you are doing.
With these types of people in my life I feel I can be somewhat blasé, because I know that no matter what, these people have my back, they always have had and they always will do. No matter how strong a person you think you are, there are times when you need support, when you need people. So, don't ever be too proud or afraid to ask. We all need someone, sometimes.
So, I want to thank everyone that has been and is there for me throughout this and beyond and to all those people that have been reading this blog.
Truth be told, I don't think I could go through with it if it wasn't for the love and unwavering support of my family and friends. They keep me grounded and give me the strength to face my fears.
Having a good support system is really important. Having people that will be there for you, not just during the all the tests, or visiting you in the hospital, or even during your recovery, but people that are there for EVERYTHING! The times when you are unsure of your decision, when your scared or just to talk about how you feel about what you are doing.
With these types of people in my life I feel I can be somewhat blasé, because I know that no matter what, these people have my back, they always have had and they always will do. No matter how strong a person you think you are, there are times when you need support, when you need people. So, don't ever be too proud or afraid to ask. We all need someone, sometimes.
So, I want to thank everyone that has been and is there for me throughout this and beyond and to all those people that have been reading this blog.
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